Why Thinkers Grow Rich and Workoholics Stay Poor

 

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When you’re at work, your boss probably isn’t too happy when he/she sees you standing around doing absolutely nothing. Unless your hands are busy with work, they assume that you’re just goofing off or being lazy. After all, production is measured in products produced, not in the number of times you blink.

When it comes to wealth though, I believe that the wealthy are the ones that are often idle and are seemingly do nothing and it’s the poor that never stop to think about what they’re actually doing. You may have heard this example, but it’s a classic and it explains my point perfectly.

Bruce is a bucket carrier for his village. Every day, he wakes up early in the morning, grabs his buckets and begins his walk toward the riverbed, which is miles away. Throughout the day, Bruce makes various trips to and from that riverbed to provide his community with fresh water.

For the workaholic, they would be thankful that they had a job and wouldn’t think any more about it. For the wealthy thinkers however, as they review their blisters after a hard day’s work, they would just continually think to themselves, “There must be a better way!” Within this scenario, the workaholic, poor thinker would carry those buckets for life, but after some time, the wealthy thinkers would finally come up with a solution, a pipeline. Instead of hauling those buckets all day, they’ll take the time to build a pipeline from the river to the village. Suddenly, they’re not observing blisters – they’re counting the continually growing mound of cash because of that continuous water flow into the village each day.

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Stop and Think

If you want to be the wealthy pipeline builder, you have to slow down once in a while. It sounds counterintuitive at first I know, but doesn’t it ultimately make sense? Unless you stop and first observe what you’re doing, you’ll just continue to do things the same and you’ll stay broke for life.

Learn

While it’s important to stop and think, if you have no knowledge beyond what you’re already doing and you aren’t actively trying to learn more, then nothing new will spark in that noggin of yours. Instead of working yourself to the bone, try going to the library and picking up a book once in a while. If you’re not much of a reader, then perhaps you could find a documentary or an instructional video on something you’ve always wanted to learn. If you want to continue to grow in life, then you must continue to learn.

Act and Repeat

Once you learn to slow down once in a while and observe your process, and you learn more through books and videos, you now have the knowledge and the time to implement a new process or procedure, or perhaps it’s an entirely new business idea. Take action on your thoughts, and then repeat the process. Stop, think, learn, and act. If you follow this pattern through life, you’ll most certainly be joining the wealthy.

Finally,  as I said earlier, your thoughts need food to process.  One classic piece of research on millionaires in the US is The Millionaire Next Door. The book was written by a couple of marketing professors, Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danko.  Stanley and Danko’s book is key because they used actual interviews with millionaires to research how America’s rich became wealthy. What they found was that millionaires owned boring profitable businesses or were self-employed. They also found that millionaires took advantage of tax-deferred investing strategies and made decisions which emphasized saving and investing over conspicuous consumption. If you are seriously thinking about how to get rich, buy and read this book.

Get to Know Me – Suburban Finance Has Been Nominated for a Liebster Award!

Suburban Finance began a couple of months ago and I’ve been happy to see some steady growth since it began. I haven’t been eligible for a Liebster award for quite some time on When Life Gives You Lemons, Add Vodka, because of it’s maturity.

The wonderful blogger, Thomas,  behind Your Daily Finance kindly nominated me for the award (thank you!), and here are the rules (copied and pasted from Your Daily Finance):

Rules for the Liebster Award:
1.    Only up-and-coming Blogs with less than 200 Twitter followers can be nominated for the Liebster Award.
2.    The award must be passed down to other blogs in the same category as your blog.
3.    When nominated, you must post 11 random facts about yourself
4.    After writing 11 random facts, answer the 11 questions from the blogger who nominated you.
5.    Come up with 11 questions of your own for your nominees.
6.    Nominate 5 other bloggers for the award, link to them, and let them know you nominated them by commenting on one of their posts.
7.    Do not nominate the person who nominated you.

My Eleven Random Facts:

  • I eat bacon, but otherwise am a vegetarian (who doesn’t love bacon!?)
  • I stopped putting sugar in my coffee at the beginning of the year and I much prefer it.
  • I freckle easily in the sun. I always have. However, in the past two years, I stopped freckling on my face. I don’t know if that’s because I’m more diligent with wearing sunscreen or what.
  • My favorite road trip song is Maggie May by Rod Stewart. My mom always used to put it on when we were driving to see family (5 hr drive) and sing to it at the top of her lungs. We hated it back then and now I get it.
  • The first and only time I entered a casino and actually played, I won $30 in bingo (first and second tries – $15 each).
  • I’m an ESTJ on the Meyer’s Brigg scale, but I feel like I fit better in the ISTJ world. I’m right between an introvert and extrovert .
  • I have a phobia of other people’s hair if it’s not attached to their head.
  • I prefer room temperature tap water (over cold bottled water).
  • As I’m writing this, I’m doing so from my hotel room in Toronto on my first ever trip travelling alone.
  • I read 4-5 books per month. It’s my only hobby.
  • My hair is really slippery. This is a really, really random fact but it’s something that my hair dressers always comment on. It’s hard to style, because it just slips out of pins and clips.

These were Thomas’s questions:

1.    What is one the biggest challenges you faced in life?

I’ve been pretty lucky and have had a pretty easy life. Other than two instances that are too personal to blog about, working full time and going to school full time was difficult. I didn’t really realize how hard it really was until I graduated.

2.    If you could have anyone mentor you who would they be and why?

Sheryl Sandberg, author of Lean In and COO of Facebook. Self explanatory.

3.    Who is your favorite Greek God/Goddess?

I don’t have one, which is terribly boring, but I just don’t know or remember enough about them!

4.    What is one thing your parents told you that you didn’t listen to growing up that you wish you did?

I’ve always been the type to listen to my parents, but there is one thing – my mom used to tell me to put away 50% of my earnings while I was in high school and I didn’t. If I had (I worked 20 hours a week or so) I would have had enough to pay for a couple of semesters of college or at least some living costs, which would have made it easier on me.

5.    Whats the most money you ever lost at once and how did you lose it?

$3000, lending it to a “friend”.

6.    Are you an introvert or extrovert?

I didn’t read this question before I wrote my random fact, but I’m not sure. I’m a mix. I seem outgoing and feel the need to fill up silences, and I get some motivation from others, but I feel drained at the end of a gathering and have some social anxiety in certain situations. I feel more comforable with a small group of 1-2 other people and I have close friends only and very few aquaintences.

7.    Where do you seen your blog in the next 6 months?

Hopefully growing!

8.    If you could visit your younger self in 11 grade what would you say?

Get over yourself ! Not everybody is out to get you. Also, hot pink jeans are not cute under any circumstances.

9.    You are on an island alone what is the one thing you just gotta have?

My laptop and a wireless signal!

10.    Mac or PC?

I’m writing on a PC right now but I covet a Mac.

11.    Favorite game as a child with friends?

“Kick the can”!

My nominees for the award

I’m a rebel without a cause, so I’m going to break the rules a bit and nominate some bloggers that have over 200 followers. They don’t have more than 500, but I feel that these guys deserve it too!

The Tortoise Banker, CNA Finance,  Luke1428, Critical Financial, and My Wealth Desire.

My questions for these guys are:

1. What is your favorite cookie?

2. Cats or dogs, and why?

3. What is the most interesting topic in the financial realm to you?

4. What is your most dreaded task related to blogging?

5. Do you prefer Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram? Why?

6. How do you feel about cilantro – do you love it, or hate it?

7. At what age did you get your first job?

8. What is the first thing you do when you wake up?

9. What was the last book you read?

10. Have you ever negotiated a bill (and if so, how much did you save)?

11. If you had to choose between it being sunny and 110 degree heat every day for the rest of your life, or 45 degrees and cloudy for the rest of your life, what would you choose?

 

Thanks for the nomination!

Earn More Money by Cutting Expenses

It’s entirely possible to earn more money by cutting expenses. 

I have heard from so many people that are unhappy with their current financial situation. Do you know what they always think they need? More money. But, from my viewpoint, their financial woes are typically due to an expense problem, not an income problem. If you find that you’re bringing in less than you’re earning each month, sometimes the best way to correct the problem is to cut out some of your unnecessary expenses.

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source: aarp.org

Get Rid of Your Smartphone to Earn More Money

My friend is really trying to correct her financial situation, and I commend her for that, but she is still blind to many of the expenses that could easily be corrected and bring her back into the black each month. Her biggest stumbling block (in my opinion) is her iPhone5 that costs her $112 a month. She told me that she WILL NOT switch plans because she doesn’t want to lose her unlimited data plan.

First of all, how many of us really need data plans? I bet if we really had to, we could all survive on a track phone and buy prepaid minutes. Sure, it would suck for a while, but it would save us about $100 a month, which translates into $1,200 a year. That’s a serious chunk of change!

If you really can’t do without texting or the data plan, there are other providers that might work in your area. Sure, you might not be able to get the most awesome phone on the market, but you’ll be paying $55 a month instead of $112. That’s a huge difference.

How Many Songs Do You Have On iTunes? Cut That Expense!

Apple is a brilliant company. They understand that people might stop for a moment to think about paying $15 for an entire disc of music, but when songs are just 99 cents, who cares? It’s practically nothing compared to our income, right? But, when you look through your playlist and discover that you have 1,000 songs, guess what, you’ve paid $1,000 for that list!

You know what I do instead? I listen to Pandora, it’s free and I hear most of the songs that I want because I just make a genre that caters to what I want to hear. If I really want to hear a specific song, I just pull up YouTube. I can listen to every single song that you can and it cost me $0 vs. your $1,000.

Eat At Home to Cut a Huge Expense & Earn More

Yes, I get it, making meals takes time and it’s not that fun. But, on average, it costs about 30% of what it would if you went out to eat! You could make a large batch of chicken or fish at the beginning of the week, keep the leftovers in the refrigerator , and eat for cheap while saving time in the process!

Find Your Unnecessary Expenses

No matter who you are, I’m sure you have expenses that could be cut out of your spending. We may think of them as necessities, but when you look at them with an objective mindset, you’ll soon realize that they’re actually just luxuries that you thought you needed, but don’t.

 

Have you earned more money by cutting expenses?